Author Archives: Jay Butchko

Co-Parenting App Aims at Making Time-Sharing Plans More Effective
In the aftermath of a breakup or a divorce involving children, coordinating time-sharing and communicating with your ex can be a challenge. A new app on the market promises to help make these tasks easier, while allowing you to track information that could prove important in developing parenting plans. Designed by a Jacksonville father… Read More »

Two Occasions When a Postmarital Agreement Is Important
If you are engaged or happily married, the last thing you may want to discuss is the potential for divorce. Unfortunately, the fact is that the divorce rate is high in this country, and even the happiest couples often go through periods in their marriage which may challenge their relationship. During these times, a… Read More »

How Career Sacrifices Impact Divorce Proceedings
Once couples get married, it is not uncommon for one of the partners to give up their own career or educational pursuits. While there are numerous reasons why this is often a good idea, there is no doubt it leaves the non-working spouse dependent on their partner and the relationship. In the event of… Read More »

How Divorce Can Impact Your Child at School
When going through a separation or divorce, it can be challenging adapting to the changes in family roles and in daily routines. This can be particularly true when it comes to children. Their age and inability to completely grasp the issues involved can cause them to act out in surprising and unexpected ways. At… Read More »

Dealing With an Ex Who Will Not Let Go
A former partner or spouse who is not ready to let go of a marriage or relationship can end up creating many problems for the one who initiated the split. Whether they refuse to accept the reality of the situation or are simply motivated to punish you, stalking and harassing behaviors should not be… Read More »

Dividing 401k Benefits in Your Divorce
During the breakup of a marriage, making sure you get your fair share of any marital property is of the utmost importance. In addition to providing you with the assets and funds you need as you recover from your divorce, any amounts you receive can also help ensure your future financial security. To be… Read More »

Reasons for Modifying the Amount You Owe in Alimony Payments
In Florida divorce cases in which one spouse has higher earnings than the other or has considerably greater assets, the court may order spousal support and maintenance. Alimony reform advocates have long complained about the system being unfair. In addition to the financial burden on those ordered to pay, they claim that these payments… Read More »

Domestic Violence As A Cause For Military Divorce
It is not uncommon for military spouses to feel isolated and alone, living far from their families and cut off from civilian life. Having to frequently uproot your family or dealing with periodic separations from your partner can put a strain on any marriage, but there also can be deeper issues involved. Domestic violence… Read More »

Making Sure Child Support Covers School-Related Costs
For parents of children just entering junior high or high school, no doubt many will be surprised at the hefty costs and fees involved. Supplies such as backpacks, back-to-school clothes, books, pens, and paper have increased in price, along with added necessities, such as laptops and elaborate calculators. If you are currently involved in… Read More »

Dealing With The Stress Of Divorce
As anyone who has been through a divorce will tell you, it is high on the list when it comes to stress. In addition to the impact on your physical health, it is easy to fall into harmful patterns of behavior that could cause problems, both now and in the years to come. Having… Read More »