Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Relocating With Your Child After a Divorce
In the aftermath of a divorce, making a fresh start and putting the past behind you is important. For some people, part of this process involves moving to a new city. Whether your move is motivated by a new job, wanting to be closer to other family members, or simply the desire to build… Read More »
If I or My Former Spouse Remarries, How Will It Impact My Child Support Order?
Some people who go through a divorce shy away from relationships for a certain period of time whereas others almost immediately get involved with a new partner. Once your divorce becomes final, there is nothing to prevent you or your former spouse from getting married again. While remarriage does not erase the financial obligations… Read More »
Four Common Issues in Military Divorce
Any married couple will find they face challenges over the years, but having a spouse in the military can put additional strains on your relationship. Unfortunately, military divorces are a common occurrence and there are numerous factors that can make these proceedings more complex than a civilian divorce. While still subject to the laws… Read More »
Virtual Visitation and Other Forms of Electronic Communications in Child Time-Sharing Cases
Children spend a lot of time on electronic devices and it is not uncommon for parents to complain about this or to limit their use. However, in child time sharing cases, the different types of technologies available can afford these same parents more ways to communicate. This can be particularly helpful when parenting plans… Read More »
When a Marital Affair Results in a Pregnancy
Marital infidelity is often a leading factor in the decision to get a divorce. It destroys trust and can be hard for the injured spouse to forgive. Even when it does not cause the breakup of a marriage, it can have lasting ramifications. In addition to feelings of jealousy, hurt, and bitterness, it can… Read More »
When Emotional Abuse Is a Factor in Time-Sharing Proceedings
The safety and well-being of your children are primary concerns in cases involving child time sharing and parenting plan arrangements. Whether you are going through a divorce or are otherwise living apart from the other parent, you want to be sure they are willing and able to meet all of your child’s needs. Child… Read More »
Can I Get My Marriage Annulled?
Getting a divorce may be the best possible option for couples who no longer wish to be together or have major disagreements on vital issues pertaining to their marriage and children. However, this does not mean that your marital status is now ‘single’ nor does it erase the fact that your marriage happened. You… Read More »
How Important Is Your Past in Child Time-Sharing Proceedings
In any legal situation involving parents, the mere thought of losing your rights or being unable to spend adequate amounts of time with your child is enough to cause a panic. This is particularly true in child time sharing proceedings, where past behaviors can influence the future relationship with your child. It is important… Read More »
How to Maintain a Healthy Attitude During Your Divorce
The end of a marriage is never pleasant. After starting out with the intention to spend the rest of your lives together, your energies are now focused on rebuilding your life apart from your spouse. Factors in your divorce or events that occurred during your marriage can leave you feeling angry, sad, hopeless, or… Read More »
Accepting When a Marriage Cannot Be Saved
Getting a divorce is nothing you should rush into. For couples experiencing marital problems, there are several options to consider before making the difficult and life changing decision to end the marriage. Individual or couples therapy may be an option and a trial separation may help you both get perspective on the situation. For… Read More »